TOP SIX QUALITIES OF A HUSBAND MATERIAL

There are certain signs that plainly points out to a lady, if the Man you’re dating is the right person for you or not. There are general qualities that make a man much more appealing, desirable as a husband and more successful as a life partner.
Today am sharing with you qualities, which if one or two miss out in your man, you a looking foward to a tougher relationship and more even a divorce in the future.

1. He makes your relationship a priority

Often, couples find themselves dealing with the daily routine and necessities of life only to find they’re living parallel lives separated by a wide rift. They feel totally disconnected from each other.

To avoid this, couples must create positive shared experiences in order to still face the mundane, create nice memories and have something to look forward to.
Any man you someday marry should realize that relationships requires a commitment and constant effort/investment. It’s important for a man not to neglect his woman.

2. He appreciates you and accepts your shortcomings

Appreciation goes a long way when creating a happy relationship. In fact, feeling appreciated is a primary quality of happy life. When he openly demonstrates his respect and appreciation for you (with his words and actions), you know you’ll live a happy life with your man.

He appreciate your qualities {good cook, caring, social, engaged, supportive etc.}, he should also accept your shortcoming (little messy, not so organized, talking a bit too much, not being on time etc.). He must  accept that no one is perfect. His overall view of you should be positive.

3. He is trustworthy

 Trust is key foundation of an intimate relationship. Yet, it’s important to understand that being trustworthy is a proactive role that requires a conscious effort, affirmed continuously by decision and actions.

4. He’s emotionally mature

 A responsible, emotionally intelligent man has the capacity to deal with the change, disappointment, stress and conflict in life and marriage. He can control his impulses and  shows true maturity.

A well-grounded man with a sense of balance can confront life and face ups (and especially downs) in a constructive way while remaining a resilient, supportive and engaging partner. Look for a man who can respond to a challenging issue responsibly, rather than react to it impulsively.

5. He shares important core values with you

Values are those ‘rules of life’ that inherently guide the way you live your life. They’re deeply rooted in personal beliefs that are fundamental to who you are. They’re also very difficult to change.
When you both think ahead into the marriage and know you can respect each other’s perspective on important marital issues such as family dynamics, child rearing, finance, in-laws, roles and responsibilities, you know you’re making the right choice.
Connecting on an emotional and value level with a man you wish to marry is a key indicator for long-term marital success. When you and your partner know that you are on the “same page,” you’ll feel more confident that he’s truly the man you want to marry.

6. He manages conflict well

 Arguments, disagreements, and conflict are not only unavoidable parts of any relationship, but also are necessary ingredients to forming a strong, lasting intimacy.

One of the most important factors that helps couples thrive is their ability to deal with different conflicts, manage difficult emotions (such disappointment, frustration and anger), de-escalate arguments, and disagree with respect.

A man who shares his thoughts and feelings with you without reservation; a man who talks things out with you; a man who discuss difficult subjects with you and can disagree yet still come to some kind a resolution is a man who has healthy communication skills and will make a great husband.

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